"These are some of the messages I received lately after loosing some matches. Just a few of them. There’s hundreds. And now, being 30 years old, although they still hurt, because at the end of the day, I’m just a normal girl working really hard and trying my best, I have tools and have done work to protect myself from this hate. But still, this is not ok."
"It really worries me when I think about younger players coming up, that have to go through this. People that still haven’t yet developed fully as a human and that really might be affected by this hate. Maybe you can think that it doesn’t hurt us. But it does. We are humans. And sometimes, when we receive this messages we are already emotionally destroyed after a tough loss. And they can be damaging."
"Many before me have raised the subject. And still, no progress has been made. Social media platforms don’t prevent it, despite AI being in a very advanced position. Tournaments and the sport keeps partnering with betting companies, which keep attracting new people to unhealthy betting."
"The days of cigarette brands sponsoring sports are long gone. Yet, here we are promoting betting companies, which actively destroy the life of some people. Don’t get me wrong, I’m not saying they should be banned as people are free to do whatever they want with their money. But maybe we should not promote them."
"Also, if someone decided to say this things to me in public, he could have legal issues. So why online we are free to do anything? Shouldn’t we reconsider anonymity online? I know those who write these terrible messages won’t change because of this."
"But maybe you, next time you see a post from an athlete, singer or any other person, that has failed or lost, you will remember that she or he is also a human being, trying his best in life."
"Yesterday I had one of the longest toughest and emotional matches in my career. I woke up today with the feeling that I was beaten up with a bat. I tried not to show it at all but after 5 and a half hours in the fifth set I had cramps all over my body."
"I am not trying to say that I lost because of this. No. It’s not an excuse. We had the same conditions with my opponent and it was a mental fight in the end. I am extremely devastated and disappointed that I could not get the victory in the end."
"But I want to stress that after matches like this, painful losses like this, it is extremely difficult to cope with this mentally. Professional sport is often associated with mental strength, but not many people tell you about this mental fatigue, burnout, self-criticism, and a feeling of desperation."
"Please, I am asking you to be respectful. Don’t strike a man when he is down. I may be down, but definitely not out! I am sure I can get over this, do the right work, and get back on court better than before. I will be grateful for all the support that I get. Let’s be kind to one another. With less hate and more love, the world will become a better place."
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